My first ancestor contact with a grandmother happened while I was in a therapy session. A grandmother came to me. I had been doing parts work for a long time and, I just knew, this wasn’t a part.
I didn’t have a frame of reference, and I couldn’t justify my knowing. But I knew she was one of my dad’s grandmothers, and she was there to help me.
A year later, I was enrolled in the Ancestral Lineage Healing course and made deeper, more conscious connections with the collective of grandmothers from this lineage.
It turned out they had been waiting for me to make that contact for generations.
Through the healing process I became more connected to my gifts from this lineage.
I was able to connect with them when I needed support and guidance, in parenting, work, and life.
I didn’t know ancestral connection was even possible for most of my life.
I am now so grateful to be able to consciously and safely engage with my people, and to help others do the same.
I’m excited to now share this experience with others. May all our lineages be well forward and back through time 🧡
There are many types of ancestors, but for this practice, we focus on the blood relatives who came before us and have died.
Even after death it is possible to connect with them. Cultural practices around the world and through time have fostered ancestral connection. However, many of us have been disconnected form those practices.
Just like the living, some ancestors are very spiritually well and able to support us. Others may be in a more troubled state, unsafe to connect with and even causing problems.
This practice gives us a way of ensuring our ancestors are well, vibrant and supporting us.
Ancestral connection is a skill that can be learned, even if we aren’t sure we can do it.
Ancestor reverence has been practiced around the world throughout time. However, many of us have been separated from this knowledge.
Or as was my experience, taught that it wasn’t possible to connect with ancestors. Reclaiming ancestral connection allows us to better know ourselves and be more deeply integrated with the animate world around us. Just because we haven't been taught how, doesn't mean we can't learn! This process facilitates that learning.
If you already connect with ancestors, this process gives a framework for supporting their wellbeing, while also facilitating healthy, safe relationships with them.
This approach is designed to support safe contact. The process also ensures the unwell dead are able to receive the healing they need to become safe again.
No, this is not a religious practice.
Ancestral Lineage healing was developed by Daniel Foor Ph.D. He is a doctor of psychology and ritualist, initiated in in the Òrìṣà tradition of Yoruba-speaking West Africa and has learned from teachers of Mahayana Buddhism, Islamic Sufism, and the older ways of his English and German ancestors.
This practice is built on the following tenants:
Consciousness continues after death.
Not all the dead are equally well.
The dead can influence the living, and the living can influence the dead.
Influences from direct lineage predecessors typically include specific gifts and blessings, as well as unresolved burdens and troubles.
Through direct connection and communication with our well and compassionate ancestors, we can help facilitate healing of troublesome intergenerational patterns, while strengthening our grounding in ancestral gifts and generative legacies.
— From "Ancestral Medicine: Rituals for Personal and Family Healing," by Daniel Foor, Ph.D.
Sessions are held over zoom for 60-90 minutes (depending on what step we are working on and how things are going). During this time, we will both be in a private space where you are safe to drop into connection with your ancestors without outside distractions.
We will start with some discussion, and I will guide you through the steps of dropping into contact with ancestors and giving you the time and prompts to work with them on the healing process.
All you need to do is show up with intention of connecting with your ancestors.
There's no need to know the steps in advance as I will walk you through them as we work together.
If you are working through the book or with the course, you are of course welcome to work through steps on your own as well.
We start with an intake where I get to know you and a bit about your people. Then we will work through the following steps:
Step One: Assessment of Four Blood Lineages
Assess the current condition of four of your ancestral lineages (i.e. each of the lineages of your blood grandparents)
Establish any necessary boundaries for you and your family
Explore ways to trust your intuition and reclaim direct knowing
Determine the focus of your ancestral repair work (i.e. which of the four lineages you will work with first)
Step Two: Contacting Ancestral Guides
Learn a framework for sustained connection with older ancestors
Safely seek direct connection with wise and kind ancestral guides on the first lineage of focus
Invite blessings and support for your life from these ancestral elders
Ask the guides to surround the generations between in healing prayer
Step Three: Blessings and ancestralization of older dead
Explore causes of ancestral wounding and pathways for healing
Support as needed in the ancestralization of older lineage ancestors
Practice allowing the guides to oversee and enact the healing
Step Four: Assisting the Recent Dead
Learn important differences when assisting more recent generations
Invite the guides to intervene on behalf of recent generations in need
Reinforce safety protocols in cases of serious lineage disturbance
Step Five: Extending the Blessings to the Living
Explore ways to support lineage ancestors to shift from well to vibrant
Consider the ongoing relationship of the ancestors to this dimension
Practice caring for remains, ancestral objects, and inheritances
Consider the impacts of ancestral wounding and healing on living relatives
Invite the guides to bring healing and goodness to your extended family
Request physical healing and optimizing of your blood, bones, and DNA
Embody lineage blessings and pray with the ancestors for your relations
I'm a mother to two young boys and have seen how this work directly influences my children’s lives and supports my parenting. I am especially passionate about supporting other parents and caregivers in the healing process for their lineages.
In my past, I was a data analyst and facilitator who battled for racial and gender equity in tech companies. After my first son was born, I moved fully into the worlds of coaching, parenting and lineage healing work.
My people are from across Europe — Ireland, England, Germany, France and Eastern Europe — and parts of Asia.
Book a 20 minute call to ask any questions.
Our first session will be 90 minutes, which should give us enough time for an intake and lineage assessment.
These can be booked as needed once you are complete with your initial session. These typically last 60-90 minutes.
Sessions are conducted over Zoom. You will receive a link at the time of booking.
Currently offering all low-fee sessions.
Initial package: includes first three sessions together $125.
On-going sessions: $50 each.
Payment can be made by Venmo, Zelle or Paypal.
If this fee is prohibitive, please reach out for pro-bono sessions.